Copied from Debi’s blog “Seriously Seeking Answers,” which has one more picture — of a bumblebee chowing down on one of the native wildflowers she sets out to attract pollinators. (I couldn’t get the formatting to behave.) To see the bee, click HERE. While you’re there, take a look around. Her blog promises a “spiritual journey in which I explore religion, personal choices and the meaning of life with fellow travelers. Plus a few recipes.” And wildlife pix. Worth a look!
This Christmas, quite frankly, finds us in a rather challenging place.
In October, Pete was diagnosed with bladder cancer and is now undergoing chemotherapy. And just as he was preparing to begin his chemo treatments two weeks ago, I was taken by ambulance to the ER for chest pain and really bad heartburn that turned out to be … a heart attack. So I got two stents for Christmas.
Despite the distressing news, we both consider ourselves fairly lucky. Pete’s cancer was actually discovered accidentally, while he was being screened for something else. If his cardiologist hadn’t spotted the mystery mass on his CT scan, who knows how far the cancer would have progressed before it was caught? And my heart attack was caught early enough, the doctors don’t think there will be permanent heart damage.
We also had some major sadness in our household earlier this year. We lost our sweet Olaf DaVinci in the spring. Oley was a big, beautiful, majestic and totally lovable Maine Coon cat with a flamboyantly irrepressible personality. He had a studious little face, thick luxurious fur and a magnificent plume of a tail. He loved to sit on laps. We miss him terribly.
Here he is on the table in our sunroom, the king of all he surveys.
The coming months are going to be a bit of a challenge as Pete continues his chemo, followed by surgery, and I begin cardiac rehab. So everyone’s prayers are greatly appreciated!! Luckily we have been surrounded by the love of supportive family and friends as we go through all this, along with delicious meals sent our way by some special angels.
We’ve even gotten support from complete strangers who probably have no idea how much of an impact their small action is having. When we’re out and about, we make a point of driving by the house on MacArthur Boulevard with this sign in their yard.
Despite the sad and scary stuff, there have been some bright spots this year.
Pete turned 80 in September, and about 30 friends and relatives turned out for our Zoom birthday party. It was GREAT seeing everyone, including people from California, Colorado and upstate New York, as well as Illinois, Iowa and Missouri, most of whom probably would not have been able to attend an in-person celebration.
We’re now part of the Associates Program for the Dominican Sisters in our community. Associates assist, among other things, with the Dominicans’ social justice activities. We had both admired the Dominican Sisters for a number of years. During our 20-plus years of working for human service agencies (me) and teaching at Benedictine University (Pete), we saw up close the many valuable contributions they’ve made to our community and the world.
The photos below show us with our sponsor during the commitment ceremony at the Motherhouse in May.
We continue to be involved in our own congregation. Since COVID broke out, we’d been “attending” church online and doing book group and Bible study sessions via Zoom, and we continue to do so due to our health concerns. We miss being in our church’s choir, which we sang in for years. But we’re finding other ways to contribute our time and talents in our congregation.
Since January, we’ve been leading a new adult faith formation class called Sundays@6, which meets on Zoom. So far, we’ve covered subjects ranging from the 10 Commandments to evangelism to what we can learn from Christians whose denominations are different from our own. The group has about 8-10 regulars who “attend” each week, and the discussions are great!
This year we also had extensive landscaping work done in the spring. I planted lots of native perennials, as well as an abundance of annuals. I’ve found gardening to be therapeutic, and the yard is looking beautiful! We’ve turned our flower beds into a welcome center for hummingbirds and bees and butterflies, and managed to attract some much-loved visitors (above).
And we still have our sweet, lovable, ornery, beautiful Champie Cat. He has been such a source of joy to us as we’ve survived this past year. I often refer to him as our furry little comforter. He was a “rescue kitty” we adopted from a shelter 15 years ago, but there could be a definite debate about who’s rescued whom. We love him so much, and he has us utterly wrapped around his paw!
Here’s hoping everyone has a safe Christmas and an even better New Year.
4 thoughts on “Our annual Christmas letter for 2022”
I really enjoyed your annual Christmas letter. I’ve been so busy the past few days, I just had a chance to read the letter. So Sorry for the loss of your sweet kitty. We are dog people, but any fur baby is wonderful. Thanks so much for sharing your news.Tomi (Tomilea) Dix
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Why, thank you! Oley was so friendly and outgoing, sometimes we called him “Puppycat.” A lot of Maine coon kitties are like that.
Your lives are so full ! You two are so inspirational. Wishing you both the best for the holiday season and into 2023. Praying for you.
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Why thank you! It’s been quite a year.
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